<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8' ?><?xml-stylesheet href='msg.xsl' type='text/xsl'?><rss version='0.9'><channel><title>Sir Maxalot</title><link>http://www.sirmaxalot.com</link><item><title>July 17 2008 (II)</title><link>http://www.sirmaxalot.com/?sp=July%2017%202008%20(II)</link><description><![CDATA[
Well Jack's "Perfect Age" is apparently going to be more like a "Perfect Day or Two"...
Here's him <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack6.wmv">thinking about it</a> 
<i>(movie, as are the rest)</i>.
A minute or two later and <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack7.wmv">IT</a> happens for the very first time (I swear he moved at least an inch!).
Check out the progress - from 
<a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack8.wmv">this</a> to 
<a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack10.wmv">this</a> - 
in a matter of minutes!!!! (Having such a <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack9.wmv">helpful</a> big brother certainly doesn't hurt.)

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More Max birthday coming soon but first, breaking news:
Jack has officially reached The Perfect Age!!!!
I've talked with many parents about this brief window of baby bliss,
when the kiddo is able to sit and entertain himself but not yet crawling.
This is the time when Baby plays at Mama's feet while Mama cooks. 
(Or in Jack's case, at the foot of the <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack4.wmv">refrigerator</a> 
<i>(movie, as are most of the links in this post - an update not for the bandwidth impaired)</i>.)
Jack's Perfect Age is slightly older, and more advanced, than was Max's -
which led me to fear that perhaps he wasn't going to have one.
From the time Max could sit, he was generally happy to stay wherever you put him, provided he had some toys.
Jack, on the other hand, is alway more interested in the super cool toy across the room than in whatever he has been given to play with,
and so lack of mobility has meant lots of <a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack5.wmv">frustration</a>.
(Which is not to say Jack is a particularly high maintanence baby. 
He is very <a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack2.JPG">laid back</a> in general, 
probably out of necessity, as he is forced to deal with Max's very <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack3.wmv">un-calm</a>
<a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack1.JPG">presence</a> all the time!
For example, he really likes 
<a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack2.wmv">standing up</a>
- so much so that we have been known to eat dinner like <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-jack1.wmv">this</a>! - 
and doesn't freak out with <a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack1.wmv">this</a> frequent occurence.
Or with <a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack2.wmv">this</a> one.)
In any case, now that Jack can scooch and <a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack3.wmv">lean</a> and 
<a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack1.wmv">pivot</a> to get where he wants to get
(often getting something he's <a href="UpdatePics/5jul08-jack4.wmv">not supposed</a> to be getting),
he's a much happier camper. I can tell you with absolute confidence that as soon as this one can crawl (which I'm thinking will be 
<a href="UpdatePics/17jul08-jack5.wmv">any day</a>), we are in big trouble!


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I know many of you wish you could have been here for Max's big day, so luckily, I was there to photograph every moment!
Starting with the pre-birthday <a href="UpdatePics/8jul08-bday.wmv">interview</a> <i>(movie, as are next four)</i> with still-2 Max and
continuing with the early morning <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bday5.wmv">interview</a> with just-turned-3 Max.
I don't remember if I mentioned this before but for weeks we've been asking Max what will happen when he's 3,
and "chew gum!" always tops the list. 
Well, the big day came, and apparently my arbitrary "3 year olds are big enough to chew gum" rule isn't applicable in Max's case.
Totally a <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bday2.wmv">bust</a>! Even with <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bday3.wmv">practice</a>!! 
Katy was able to work some of her magic to get him chewing for a <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bday4.wmv">little bit</a>, 
but chewing without swallowing seems to be more of a 4 year old skill.

<p>
In contrast to riding a super cool big boy bike, which is TOTALLY a 3 year old skill.
At least once Katy got involved.
<a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy9.JPG">Max + bike</a> 
+ <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-bike1.wmv">practice</a> <i>(movie, as are next two)</i>+ 
<a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-bike3.wmv">Aunt Katy</a>  = one 3 year old 
<a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-bike2.wmv">riding machine</a>!
Aunt Katy was definitely the key ingredient here, 
as Max was initially more keen on pedalling backwards (i.e. braking) than on pedalling forwards,
and so the <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bike1.JPG">initial spin</a> around the block was 
more of a <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bike2.JPG">jolty</a> push down the road.

<p>
This was just one of the many SUPER DUPER FABULOUS highlights of Aunty Katy's 
way too short trip.
Yes, she may have had some questionable babysitting <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy8.JPG">techniques</a>,
and yes, Max was <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy2.JPG">icing</a> his forehead within minutes of her arrival,
and yes, she may have taught Max some questionable new ways to <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-tummy.wmv">play</a> <i>(movie)</i> with Jack,
but overall, we couldn't have gotten through the week without you Aunt Katy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Really.
We may not have that perfect photograph to capture the trip -
either Katy's eyes are <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy1.JPG">closed</a>, 
or Jack's eyes are <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy5.JPG">closed</a>, 
or Katy is <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy3.JPG">hiding</a> behind Jack, 
or Katy is <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy4.JPG">looking away</a> from the camera,
or <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy6.JPG">wet hair</a> and <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-katy7.JPG">gigantic shadows</a> strike again -
but that's okay, because the memories are SO STINKING GOOD that we don't need no stinking pictures to remember it.
Thank you Aunt Katy for the best visit ever!
One sweet first: As we were driving away from the airport, Max was quiet, and I asked "What's wrong Max?",
and he answered "I'm just sad because I want Aunt Katy to come to our house and play with me."
Luckily we'll be seeing you again soon Auntie!

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Sean made us a compost bin! 
Actually, Sean and <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-compost1.JPG">Max</a>
<a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-compost1.wmv">made</a> <i>(movie, as are next two)</i> us a compost bin!!
Always unpredictable in his squeamishness, 
Max was totally <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-compost2.wmv">unfazed</a> by the zillions of creepy <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-compost3.wmv">crawlies</a>.
He was pretty close to being convinced to <a href="UpdatePics/14jul08-compost2.JPG">chow down</a>!

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We miss you Aunt Katy!!!!!
(Not too many pictures of her trip, because
<a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-katy.wmv">this</a> <i>(movie)</i>
is how she felt about my picture-taking obsession.)

]]></description></item><item><title>July 15 2008 (II)</title><link>http://www.sirmaxalot.com/?sp=July%2015%202008%20(II)</link><description><![CDATA[
Fourth of July:
Thank goodness for the airshow which taught us to pack earplugs!
The <a href="UpdatePics/4jul08-fireworks1.JPG">funnel cake</a> was apparently quite good (45 minutes and $5 later...),
<a href="UpdatePics/4jul08-fireworks2.JPG">Jack</a> was definitely very good,
and Max was a crazy, running and screaming fool.
Until the fireworks started with no warning.
He froze on the spot and started to sob.
Once his <a href="UpdatePics/4jul08-fireworks3.JPG">ears</a>   
(and <a href="UpdatePics/4jul08-fireworks4.JPG">eyes</a>) were shielded from the "scary noise", all was well.
Jack, in a happy bit of timing, got hungry a minute or two before the show began.
He <a href="UpdatePics/4jul08-fireworks5.JPG">nursed</a> the night away, totally oblivious to the sights and sounds around him.

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Lots of stuff happening over here so expect short but frequent updates. 
Starting with the previously alluded to waterslide extravaganza.

<p>
We drove to (mostly) sunny Virginia to take advantage of the free admission for military at Watercountry USA.
The 5+ hour trip was remarkably <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides1.JPG">smooth</a>.
(The "+" is due to the fact that I printed page 1 of 2 of the directions to get us there,
stopping at the Virginia border and excluding the address, and name, of our hotel. Things were a little tense after we realized what I had done - 
although that was nothing compared to the few minutes after I chose "1980" as my "thing" during the first round of 20 questions. 
"Is it a concept?" "Sort of.")
Ryder and Barrett and families met us at the hotel, 
and it was a weekend of <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides2.JPG">family fun</a> for the boys and the parents too.
Max really liked the hotel part of the experience (he is still asking if we can go back to the "hotels" with no mention of any desire to slide again!),
and Jack was similarly amused by the <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides1.wmv">small stuff</a> <i>(movie)</i>.
I was initially worried that the trip was going to be kind of a bust, 
as Max was too freaked out to even attempt the <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides4.JPG">little kid slides</a>,
but as we explored the park more, 
we found some even <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides7.JPG">smaller</a>, <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides5.JPG">animal-themed</a> slides that were just his style.
Other hits were the small <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides2.wmv">tube ride</a> <i>(movie)</i> that Maxo could do with Mama or Papa,
and the very <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides9.JPG">relaxing</a>
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides3.wmv">lazy river</a> <i>(movie)</i> which <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides8.JPG">I</a> could have done all day.
The wave pool, initially a very <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides4.wmv">chaotic</a> <i>(movie)</i> disaster, 
just required some time in the <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides11.JPG">shallow area</a> and soon 
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides13.JPG">Max and Papa</a>,  
and <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides12.JPG">Max and Jack and Papa</a>, 
were <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides6.wmv">loving</a> 
</a><a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides5.wmv">it</a> 
<i>(both movies)</i>.
Speaking of Jack, SUCH A TROOPER!
He was 
so <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides6.JPG">good</a>
and so <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides14.JPG">sweet</a>
and so <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides10.JPG">fun</a> 
the entire day,
enjoying the water wherever we <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides3.JPG">plopped</a> him down,
until he finally <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-slides15.JPG">passed out</a> in my arms late in the afternoon.

<p>
Coming soon... Watercountry New Bern...

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Happy <a href="UpdatePics/9jul08-bday1.wmv">birthday</a> <i>(movie)</i> sweet sweet boy. 
We love you a whole lotta tons.

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The joy and the heartbreak of creating life...
When I started writing this gardening post three weeks ago, 
things were popping over here at <a href="UpdatePics/9jun08-garden2.JPG">Farmette</a> McCool.
We had already <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden2.JPG">harvested</a> our first tomatoes, beans, and squash with much
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden1.wmv">fanfare</a> <i>(movie)</i>,
and things were 
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden1.JPG">looking</a> 
<a href="UpdatePics/9jun08-garden5.JPG">very</a>
<a href="UpdatePics/9jun08-garden4.JPG">promising</a> for a summer of 
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden8.JPG">veggies</a> and <a href="UpdatePics/9jun08-garden3.JPG">herbs</a> galore.
We had even made our first <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden10.JPG">recipe</a> from the garden's <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden11.JPG">bounty</a>
(and I do mean <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden2.wmv">"we"</a> <i>(movie)</i>, I was lucky to have any produce left for the final product).
Our plants certainly weren't going to win any
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden7.JPG">beauty contests</a>.
but our (super cool <a href="UpdatePics/13jun08-pottery.JPG">homemade</a> Father's Day surprise)
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden6.JPG">plate</a> runneth over. 
And then came the aphids.. dum dum dum...
Actually, first came our mini-<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-water1.JPG">vacation</a>, from which we returned to find
<a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden5.JPG">parched</a> peas and lettuce which had decided to <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden3.JPG">bolt</a>.
And THEN came the aphids. 
Ants had been living it up in our beds for quite some time, but all of my (minutes of) Internet research indicated that the ants wouldn't be a problem.
Unless they decided to cultivate aphids in order to feast on their honeydew. 
By the time I had discovered the little buggers, the squash and zucchini plants were history.
Sigh. The great news: The squash were the primary casualty of the infestation (so far... I'm still waiting on my ladybug order to finish the buggies off).
Our tomatoes are thriving. <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-garden9.JPG">Yum</a>!
And our herbs too. 
<a href="UpdatePics/6jul08-garden2.JPG">Herbs</a> <a href="UpdatePics/6jul08-garden1.JPG">herbs</a> 
<a href="UpdatePics/9jun08-garden1.JPG">herbs</a> everywhere. 
Let's just hope they aren't trampled by our already out of control pumpkin/cantelope/watermelon 
<a href="UpdatePics/6jul08-garden3.JPG">patch</a>.

<p>
I meant to do this on Father's Day, but I have to say THANK YOU to Grandpa Keith for 
establishing the foundation for a love of gardening way back when.
I very vividly remember walking behind you in our Monon garden, dropping seeds every few inches.
It took me many moon to rediscover the joy of the homegrown veggie but wahoo! I finally did.
So thank you!!!
I think a lot about how hard it must be to be the parent of grown-ups.
I cannot imagine that there will be a time when I don't get to hang out with my boys everyday, let alone go weeks without chatting them up.
And yet that is exactly what you do.
But all of you parents and grandparents out there should know that even though we don't call or write or even say thank you,
you are with us all the time!
We spent a big portion of the car ride to the waterslides playing 20 questions, a la McCool Family, Sr.,
and look Grandma Jean, I've become the type of person that photographs my food :-)
I have an abundance of cleaning tricks thanks to Nana, and
Grandpa Brian, I am told I have you to thank for Max's love of Homer, and "boy humor" :-)
Grandma V., we watched the fireworks on blankets you made for us.
And Grandma and Grandpa McCool, your generosity has kept us all clothed,
and that cucumber/tomato recipe above is from a cookbook you gave me!
So anyway, we love you all, thank you for everything you have taught us!
And for putting up with us despite our poorly corresponding ways.

<p>
P.S. I know you tuned in for some pics of the boys, not plant shots, or lovey-doveyness, so here are a couple of videos, 
in honor of Lola, who can now watch videos (yay yay yay):
Max and Jack remain the <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-car.wmv">best of buds</a> <i>(movie, as is the next one)</i>, 
when Max isn't threatening Jack's life that is (he loves to put things on Jack's head, and also to pound on it with assorted toys, such as the toy ax from his toolbox).
Luckily Jack is getting <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-crawlattempt.wmv">closer</a> to crawling by the day and will soon be able to escape from his big brother's clutches.
Max will be 3 on Wednesday, can you believe it??!?!? 
For those grandparents who located a perfect Not New present for the boy but who have not yet sent it, his party's not until Sunday so you still have time!
I know it takes advanced planning to go the used route, we partially failed this year,
so just be on the lookout for some little boy outgrowing his jet stash, Max is <a href="UpdatePics/23jun08-jets.JPG">OBSESSED</a>.

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